Add VPS warm-standby/backup site (Phase 0-1b)

Foundation for a DR/backup path using an always-on VPS as a second
ArgoCD-managed cluster, plus DB/backup standardization work that fell
out of it:

- vps-standby ArgoCD cluster destination + AppProject, MinIO backup
  receiver, VPS bootstrap script (k3s, Netbird, cert-manager)
- Dual-site DNS failover watcher + home-IP DDNS CronJob, Cloudflare
  token moved out of git into Vault+ExternalSecret
- Nextcloud migrated from ad-hoc MariaDB to CNPG + redis-operator
  (matches n8n/Authentik/GitLab's backup-native pattern)
- Authentik's CNPG manifests moved into the actual ArgoCD-synced
  manifests/ path (were present but never wired into the sync path)
- Vault raft-snapshot CronJob, CNPG barmanObjectStore backups
  (Authentik/n8n/Nextcloud), Nextcloud file-PVC restic sync - all
  targeting the new VPS MinIO receiver

See VPS Warm-Standby plan doc for full design rationale.

infrastructure/authentik/manifests/cnpg-secrets.yaml

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+---
+apiVersion: generators.external-secrets.io/v1alpha1
+kind: Password
+metadata:
+  name: authentik-cnpg-secret
+  namespace: authentik
+spec:
+  length: 42
+  digits: 5
+  symbols: 5
+  symbolCharacters: "-_$@"
+  noUpper: false
+  allowRepeat: true
+---
+apiVersion: external-secrets.io/v1
+kind: ExternalSecret
+metadata:
+  name: authentik-cnpg-secret
+  namespace: authentik
+spec:
+  # how often to rotate the DB password
+  refreshInterval: "24h"
+  target:
+    # This will merge the generated password into the existing pg-authentik-app secret
+    name: pg-authentik-app
+    creationPolicy: Merge
+    template:
+      metadata:
+        labels:
+          cnpg.io/reload: "true"
+      data:
+        # Override the password field with our ESO-generated password
+        password: "{{ .password }}"
+  dataFrom:
+    - sourceRef:
+        generatorRef:
+          apiVersion: generators.external-secrets.io/v1alpha1
+          kind: Password
+          name: authentik-cnpg-secret